The Bitter Pangs of Disappointments and Frustrations

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Planning gives structure to life. A planner is an aid to every individual so that every week, a person can maximize each time that he has and can even make time to those things that really matter in life. In this highly erratic world, planning gives us security that even when all things in the world fail; you are on the right path. However, when your very plan does not work, you begin to feel the tremendous bitter pangs of disappointments and frustrations.

As much as possible, I try to avoid a work day which is unplanned. I think that it is a great waste of my mental and physical dexterity. I believe that a moment lost is gone forever. So I plan everything down to the last minute so that I can achieve my goals. Aside from that, I do not only plan my week, I plan my monthly activities, and I plan my yearly activities, and most of all I plan the long term. As I plan, I am already imagining the circumstances that can be and will be in the future. However, if from the very start you are told that these possibilities in the long term will never ever work, then you cannot help but feel as in you are on ground zero. You are now required to start from scratch and pick up the pieces once again. Sometimes people might feel that it was all along futile to dream the possibilities and could be’s. However, given this dismal scenario, it can also be a challenge to stay focused, determined, and driven to the opportunities that are really there for you.


Yes it was all bitter pangs and disappointments, but in time, the pain, sadness, and frustrations will heal itself. Stay focused, driven, and determined to the greater things that are really there for you. In the end, you will realize that you are made of gold. The disappointments and frustrations are symbols of the flame and heat to purify you to become the gold that you are really meant to be.

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